Throwing garbage from windows, spitting on roads /
buildings, telling lies to each other, pointing fingers on others, etc has
become a part of very day life for us now. Pushing each other while getting
lined up for namaz, fear of losing slippers while in Masjid, and use religion
as shield to hide behind it is the saddest part in our society. Irresponsible
driving, crossing roads blindly despite of pedestrian bridges, uneven parking
shows the mental level of distressed society.
As humans & Pakistanis we have stop trusting each
other, honesty & trustworthiness has been lost in our lives. We forget
promises we make & lose loyalty. We are not reliable and ultimately lose
credibility between words & actions. Alas being human reputation is at risk
then faces criticism all over the world.
It’s really sad to see that if any of the children is scold
by teachers; parents dishonor the teachers & that step encourages the child
to repeat that act. Sense of pessimistic authority is developed & as time
goes by it becomes part of habit resulting in generating irresponsible &
rude individuals. Character building starts within the home & it should be parents’
supreme responsibility to teach their children how to respect elders.
Building a civilized society is a collective
responsibility of every human being. Parents, teachers & elders should teach
children how to treat others better than they treat you. Be open and tolerate
differences, deal peacefully with disagreements & anger in good manner.
Must treat others the way we want them to treat us.
We are accountable of our actions; if we do good there
is no way that will catch a bad return. We have to be fair not with own selves
but in general, governments, people ruling the country. Rulers take oath that
‘we will work honestly and sincerely and be remain faithful and loyal to the
Government of Pakistan’ But? Chaos in
Pakistani society is just because we within ourselves have lost our integrity,
commitments and competency of being loyal & faithful. We aren’t open-minded
to others fault be do take advantage to humiliate to least level. We get
jealous of others achievements, satisfy ourselves on wrong doings.
Through this blog, just wanted to send the message to
all fellow countrymen, that we can make Pakistan a best society by starting
today from ourselves. Being parents we are role models to our coming
generations. We can teach our children the importance to being honest, caring
& building personal morals.
Generate and sustain trust, demonstrate respect,
responsibility, fairness & caring behaviors are the foundation of a decent
society. Small things can create miracles, be cooperative, share information,
be a good neighbor, protect environment, be a law abiding citizen, exhibit
civic duties, forgive others, help the needy, express gratitude are just simple
common things which are in Holy Quran & taught by Holy Prophet (PBUH).
Think before act, act with self discipline, and be
consistent with decisions made, don’t lie to your people. Because there is a
system which is controlled by Allah Almighty, no one and nothing is hidden from
Him. On the Day of Judgment everyone is answerable in front of Him. So fulfill
your responsibilities, instead of hating each other, give respect, caring,
forgiveness & love a room to be accompanying us our lives.
Let’s make ourselves proud, our ancestors proud, our
Quaid-e-Azam proud with Allah Almighty’s blessings. Pakistan Zindabad.
