Being a Mommy is the
most incredible thing that happens to any woman. Giving birth to a child
completes Womanhood. Every Mom wants the best for her children in their lives.
Bringing up this blessing of life supports and motivates the Woman to go on, in
the corner of the heart Mom knows what her children are and she knows that they
will make their way.
Apart from academic
responsibilities Children while growing up develop lot of interests like
playing cricket, hanging out with friends and must not forget computers. They find computers more credible and
compassionate. They serve their quality time on computer either studying or
playing games. Children find computers as their comfort zone and they create
their own fantasy world around it. They even accumulate their savings to
upgrade it.
Social Media, Online
Games and many other Social Networking sites attract children and introduce unknown
users of similar interests. They often find new friends without knowing who is behind
the screen tricking them. Although Social Media is an incredible medium for
interacting around the world within seconds, but it does have some horrific negative
aspect too. They are always online communicating with friends sharing news,
photos, videos in fingertips which make them feel wanted and socialized.
As a parent specially of
teenagers who are experiencing the world their way, have to make sure their children
do not spend too much time on engaging internet activity and they must keep a
close eye on their happenings, just to make sure their communication and
interaction with friends is ‘open’, most importantly parents has to be vigilant
just to keep their children safe. Teenagers mostly get impressed by exciting stories
and glamorous lifestyle, which is sometimes alarming which led to personality disorder
in their upbringing.
Influence of Social Media
has played a significant role in our society. It has become a necessary part of
our lives and symbol of social status as well. Behavior of children is affected;
social media sometimes becomes a pied piper for children. The desktop on study
table or a smart phone has replaced the role of parents & overtaken children’s
mind. They direct what to do and what not to do which is such an amazing metaphor
which controls one’s life and parents are unaware of it. Literately it’s a devil
which is along with their children 24/7. Cell phones and excessive use of
internet constantly exert its power in every way it can, on the other hand
parents are compassionate who trust their children. So no matter how much they care
or want to make them safe, the love they give their children and the
independence they offer them as a child is total in their hands.
Social Media has
become an instructor in our children’s life, teachers refers them to research and
do their work by the help of internet, friends suggests they can find updates
of their interests like music, movies etc. Surprisingly, as parents us ourselves
allows our children to be groomed by this Monster.
Being a teenager is an
incredible confusing world, pierce becomes very very important and it doesn’t matter
how close you are to a parent and how great your parents are, as you start
becoming more independent you look to others either of your age or a little bit
older to direct you in your journey.
As a family quality time
with own children, communication and elucidation about their interests is what
Parents must practice. Love and affection can replace every gadget. It’s round
the clock job of Parents to a friend of their children and guides them in every
step of life.
